Lord777
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Usually this means "how to find such a sucker to leave at the expense of him, when he does everything, and I do not make any effort."
No one thinks, " what can I do to someone I want to connect with?"
The favorite position of freeloaders is to argue as follows: "He was successful because he was helped and had connections!". You understand, all this is also work, this is not a free ride. Unless, of course, you were immediately born the son of Donald Trump. If a person initially represents nothing, and people with resources will appear on his life path, he will still not succeed, and no one will give anything. Only from the outside it seems that these or other people are given "for nothing" and for free. In fact, a lot of work was done before that.
No one ever does anything to anyone for nothing. Can you go out on the street and give the first person you meet a decent amount of money? Usually, there is either an intersection of interests and resources, or cooperation, and only in this case can those who have more resources do something for you.
There are examples when a dude was traveling in a train compartment, and his fellow passenger was some general. They got to know each other, chatted, and then the general settled him in a warm place. But then again, you don't have to think that anyone can be in the place of this dude. If I had been in that compartment, this general might not have liked me at all and would not have suited me in any way. He most likely sees in that guy the potential that can be useful to him in a certain activity. He sees this from the height of his own experience.
In real life, no one just helps. I've never seen millionaires walk down the street and help everyone. If you want to find useful connections, then you need to understand and know how to correctly connect. First of all, you should think about how to help the resource person in their business or solve their problem. And don't ask for anything under any circumstances. Those who constantly ask them for something, there are a huge number of them, like parasites.
If you come across such a friend, and if he feels that you can't give him anything, you don't even think in this direction, but works on the principle of "help, you already have a lot of everything, it won't hurt you!", then forget that you will meet this person at least once again. He will do anything to isolate you from himself.
Parasitic, consumerist, and accommodative thinking is the standard behavior of most people, especially the poor and unsuccessful. The get-it-for-free approach is evident in everything. I am often asked questions in a personal account or via email, it happens like this: "I have such and such problems, help me solve them!". No one ever thinks why suddenly someone should help you and solve your problems. No one thinks about what they can do for this person in the first place, so that it would be interesting for them to communicate and help in some way.
Successful people are open and sociable, but only with those who are not seen as opportunists and freeloaders. They are usually all very open. But usually they try to get in touch with them in an idiotic way and on the principle of " now I'll try to fuck something from him!", so that for nothing. Like "it won't make any difference, and so rich, just think, will pay me a couple of pounds, but I'll be happy, I'll live!".
The more the approach, based on the principle of "I'm all so unhappy, vulnerable, help, I'm very bad, I'm depressed, it's so hard for me, but it doesn't cost you anything, give me a helping hand and my life will get better immediately, please, it's not difficult for you, my life is in the balance", the more successful people hate such beggars. How many times have I seen them react to such requests - everyone is always negative.
Rich successful people are often approached by unfamiliar or completely unfamiliar people, with stupid and unpromising "business" offers, or with a position to leave at their expense and try to lure investments. They immediately have a cynical hatred in their eyes, because they are tired of listening to these whiners and beggars. And most of all, they hate relatives and old friends, because they ask the most, like " help, you're a matchmaker, brother, my sister's husband, make me repairs, you're a millionaire, buy me a car." They hate these parasites.
These people have worked hard to achieve their goal, and they know the price they paid, the thorns they went through. As soon as they are trying to start reaping the benefits and enjoying the results of their hellish work (and this is always a huge work on the psyche, and the price for this is broken health), some freeloaders immediately come who have not suffered even a tenth of a percent from his work, and want to get the same thing for free. They have a real hatred for these freeloaders. After a while, they become armor-piercing cynical indifferent.
And remember: Success = The People you meet + what you will do together!
No one thinks, " what can I do to someone I want to connect with?"
The favorite position of freeloaders is to argue as follows: "He was successful because he was helped and had connections!". You understand, all this is also work, this is not a free ride. Unless, of course, you were immediately born the son of Donald Trump. If a person initially represents nothing, and people with resources will appear on his life path, he will still not succeed, and no one will give anything. Only from the outside it seems that these or other people are given "for nothing" and for free. In fact, a lot of work was done before that.
No one ever does anything to anyone for nothing. Can you go out on the street and give the first person you meet a decent amount of money? Usually, there is either an intersection of interests and resources, or cooperation, and only in this case can those who have more resources do something for you.
There are examples when a dude was traveling in a train compartment, and his fellow passenger was some general. They got to know each other, chatted, and then the general settled him in a warm place. But then again, you don't have to think that anyone can be in the place of this dude. If I had been in that compartment, this general might not have liked me at all and would not have suited me in any way. He most likely sees in that guy the potential that can be useful to him in a certain activity. He sees this from the height of his own experience.
In real life, no one just helps. I've never seen millionaires walk down the street and help everyone. If you want to find useful connections, then you need to understand and know how to correctly connect. First of all, you should think about how to help the resource person in their business or solve their problem. And don't ask for anything under any circumstances. Those who constantly ask them for something, there are a huge number of them, like parasites.
If you come across such a friend, and if he feels that you can't give him anything, you don't even think in this direction, but works on the principle of "help, you already have a lot of everything, it won't hurt you!", then forget that you will meet this person at least once again. He will do anything to isolate you from himself.
Parasitic, consumerist, and accommodative thinking is the standard behavior of most people, especially the poor and unsuccessful. The get-it-for-free approach is evident in everything. I am often asked questions in a personal account or via email, it happens like this: "I have such and such problems, help me solve them!". No one ever thinks why suddenly someone should help you and solve your problems. No one thinks about what they can do for this person in the first place, so that it would be interesting for them to communicate and help in some way.
Successful people are open and sociable, but only with those who are not seen as opportunists and freeloaders. They are usually all very open. But usually they try to get in touch with them in an idiotic way and on the principle of " now I'll try to fuck something from him!", so that for nothing. Like "it won't make any difference, and so rich, just think, will pay me a couple of pounds, but I'll be happy, I'll live!".
The more the approach, based on the principle of "I'm all so unhappy, vulnerable, help, I'm very bad, I'm depressed, it's so hard for me, but it doesn't cost you anything, give me a helping hand and my life will get better immediately, please, it's not difficult for you, my life is in the balance", the more successful people hate such beggars. How many times have I seen them react to such requests - everyone is always negative.
Rich successful people are often approached by unfamiliar or completely unfamiliar people, with stupid and unpromising "business" offers, or with a position to leave at their expense and try to lure investments. They immediately have a cynical hatred in their eyes, because they are tired of listening to these whiners and beggars. And most of all, they hate relatives and old friends, because they ask the most, like " help, you're a matchmaker, brother, my sister's husband, make me repairs, you're a millionaire, buy me a car." They hate these parasites.
These people have worked hard to achieve their goal, and they know the price they paid, the thorns they went through. As soon as they are trying to start reaping the benefits and enjoying the results of their hellish work (and this is always a huge work on the psyche, and the price for this is broken health), some freeloaders immediately come who have not suffered even a tenth of a percent from his work, and want to get the same thing for free. They have a real hatred for these freeloaders. After a while, they become armor-piercing cynical indifferent.
And remember: Success = The People you meet + what you will do together!
